I had a hard time deciding what to do, but kept the baby in the end. I was still really in love with him when I got pregnant so I never expected him to react that way. He also threatened to tell my mother because he was convinced she would want me to abort as well (he couldnвЂ™t have been more wrong). He told me I was ruining his life and my life, and said I wasnвЂ™t really pro-choice if I didnвЂ™t abort, if I really loved him I would abort. He went back and forth from being supportive to trying to manipulate me into an abortion the first 24hrs, then he stuck with trying to get me to abort. There was a condom malfunction and I ended up pregnant. He was sleeping with other women, and I was casually dating but not sleeping with anyone else. We had been broken up eight or nine months before we started to sleep together again.

'I was casually sleeping with an ex-boyfriend when I got pregnant. And no, he does not know even now because I was never able to find the guy again.' 'There are days I wish I didn't go through with the pregnancy' Still canвЂ™t find a way to contact the guy (apparently his place wasnвЂ™t even his!) Anyways, no I did not keep the pregnancy. He ghosted me before ghosting was even a thing literally the day after the deed (or misdeed rather). Getty / Cosmopolitan 'I fell for him and he ghosted me' I never told the FWB and actually broke up with him soon after for unrelated reasons (time, distance, and that lack of compatibility outside of bed).' I had to wait another week as they had nothing available but the wait only solidified my resolve. So, I booked a medical abortion (the pills). I was in my last year of undergrad, a single mum to two small kids, and IвЂ™d just landed a prestigious internship that could not be done while pregnant as it required certain physical abilities. I never had a doubt about what I needed to do. The test almost immediately popped up positive. We had almost nothing in common other than great sexual compatibility. 'I was in the process of divorce, waiting on finalisation. Every few years he emails me to ask how the kid is, and since I know where the kid is and can ask about him, I tell him what I know.' 'I booked a medical abortion and have no regrets' That also helped when I gave the child up because I didn't need his permission. I didn't want him beholden to me so I didn't put his name on the birth certificate. He was understandably upset just as I was. Getty Images 'I didn't put his name on the birth certificate' I love him for the love he has with our child. We had no interest in each other besides sex and food. His fiancГ© is amazing and we call her 'other mother' because that lady stepped and decided, 'I love this man, I love this child'. 'I was in a bad place mentally and found this dude. We moved in together four months later and weвЂ™ve been married 14 years this year.' 'We call his fiancГ© the 'other mother'' After our son was born, he came to visit and I realised I had some strong feelings for him. He called me every week during my pregnancy to check on me and the baby. He reacted by asking me if I was going to have an abortion. 'He asked me if I was going to have an abortion' Here's what IRL women did when they fell pregnant after a casual hookup.

But what happens when a one night stand ends in an unexpected pregnancy? What do you do then? Do you tell the father, even though you don't know the guy? Or do you make a decision as to what to do next all by yourself? Having sex with someone you don't know, who doesn't know what you like or how your body works can be disappointing to say the least. They can be a giant laugh that you look back on fondly, and recount to your friends over beers the next day.

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